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A way to success

By Shenmae S.Sojor

To become successful is everyone’s dream. Besides, who wouldn’t want to be successful?

Success is just a handful meter away and it is your responsibility as a dreamer to reach for it. The problem is, not everyone can achieve their dreams of success. But, what is really success? How will you ever gain success? 

We have different description of success. One might say that success is when you have a lot of money or when you get rich. Another is, when you already reach the point where almost everything is already a grasp from your hand. However, success can still be achieved regardless of the material things like having a complete family or having a degree course in college. These things might seem so little, but you can still feel satisfaction and contentment from what they so-called simple things. You might as well say that in success as long as you do something good and you are satisfied of its outcome, then that is already a success.

The road to success is very difficult, full of rejection, pain, hard work, disappointment as well as many other discouraging things, but in the end, you will feel really happy and victorious once you overcome these. You will feel proud of yourself for reaching your goals in spite of the many things that stood in your way. You will be extremely happy and satisfied and you will experience the feeling of contentment and satisfaction.

To reach success you need to have strong focus and determination. Seeking help from others like those people who already gained success is one of the things that are considered to be important for success. Knowing your skills and capabilities are only a part of the many things that you need to consider upon reaching your dream. One has to have a burning desire for success to be able to survive.

Of course, in success you need to learn how to learn. One way of learning is through experience because as what they say experience is the best teacher. Another way is through the advices given by those people who already gained a lot of success. Here are some of the tips that will help you become more or less successful if you will just follow and do it wholeheartedly. No matter how many trials. No matter how many failures. As long as you believe and do things right, everything will be possible.   

Keep trying. Success is all about trial and error. The main reason why some people never succeed is not that they never try but it’s that they try few times then give up after failing. Imagine a baby learning to walk and no matter how hard the baby tries to stand up; the baby will still end up falling. Each time the baby loses its balance the baby would still find ways to be able to stand up. It‘s either the baby will hold on something or the baby will seek help from his/her mother. The same goes for the process of learning and for success. If you really want success then you must be ready to accept failure. Don’t be afraid to try new things regardless of the failure that comes into it, it is more worthwhile if you know that you were able to overcome failure.

Be flexible. When you fail be flexible and change your method, try something new or a different approach. Each time you fail you will discover one new thing that was preventing you from succeeding and after enough number of failures you will find nothing standing in your way.

Set your goals. Before setting your goals you must first, know and understand what you really want to happen in your life. Your goals should be real to YOU. If you are not sure of yourself or your goals, then the game is over. Always believe that you can achieve your goals despite of everything that will come into your way. You will never achieve anything if you don’t believe you can. Each time you seek for success, start with a positive thought. When you feel like giving up always think of things that are meaningful to you. Write down what you want to achieve, don’t listen to any of the negatives and just concentrate on your goal. Writing your thoughts and goals down will make them more real to you, and decide in yourself what is it that you really want to do.

Don’t be afraid of failure. Failure always comes in your way no matter how hard you try to avoid it. Once you encounter this, learn to fight and never give up. You may not progress in the first try. Don’t worry, there is always another chance. Avoid negative thoughts. This is the main reason why you will gain failure, you always think that you mess up and you are stupid just because you fail. Take note that a successful man never quits despite of all the trials that comes along the way. Just be patient, time will come that all of the hardships that you’ve been through will be paid off.   

Be Ethical. Being ethical is one thing that a successful person should bear in mind. As an ethical person you must learn to be fair. Learn not to cheat and to take advantage on things that will make success easy without working hard for it. Most people who are at the peak of success eventually are the once who become unethical. They will try everything just to get what they wanted despite of its harmful effects to the people around them. For a person to become successful, one should gain knowledge on how to become ethical. One must also learn to do things right in accordance to the law of man and the law of God.

Stay focused. Failure, rejection and even disappointment will surely come along as you made your way up to reach success. Due to these things you will probably lost focus and mess up. Just relax, avoid negative thoughts that will intervene with your focus. Do not focus on why you fail but focus on the things that will be a help for you to prevent from failing. In this way only you will be able to maintain your focus on what you really want to happen.

Always remember there is no short-cut way to success. That is why, after setting the goal we should work hard and try again and again to achieve a satisfying success. You should not give up the hope of trying anything. Also, you must believe in your dreams and that you can achieve it despite of the hindrances that comes along with it. Aim high, strive hard and reach for success.

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